1.10.13
Some parents need to stop talking shit.“你被她卖了你也不知道”
So graduation dinner was basically representative of family friends coming together/asian mums reuniting which also leads to inevitable bitching and gossip about their children. This I allow/can understand because it's like a tradition, a part of our culture or someshit. But for other fucking parents to fucking insinuate shit about me is on a completely different level.
- First of all, if you want to say something about me, tell my mum straightforwardly, don't beat around the bush, sugar coat it and slightly hint the negative comment through your sly expressions.
- I'm going to assume that you say all this because you hear intel and information from your fucking daughter, who I don't even fucking associate with. Yes we have our dnm's, but that's like what? Twice a year or someshit but otherwise it's just a hello at school because we sit in the same fucking group.
- I watch what I say. I've been through enough shit when it comes to other parents judging me/implying shit. Just because I go out more, it doesn't mean “我很厉害”。 I know this sounds like a compliment, but when fucking other parents imply it slyly, "Tina本事很大” “你女儿很能干” THEN BACK THE FUCK OFF
- YOUR DAUGHTERS AREN'T ANY BETTER THAN I AM. IF ANYTHING, THEY'RE MORE TROUBLED AND FUCKED UP THAN THEY SEEM. WHY DON'T YOU KNOW? MAYBE BECAUSE I DON'T FUCKING GO AROUND SNOOPING INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S BUSINESS OR TELL MY MUM.
- I'm actually referring this to two mothers. However, “你被她卖了你也不知道” was what happened during grad night and the other two "Tina本事很大” “你女儿很能干” have been around for a solid decade and I am fucking sick of their shit. Just because I fucking matured quicker than your daughters, just because I learnt to become independent faster than your fucking daughters, it doesn't make me a bad person or 'cunning' as you shit heads might say.
- I swear no one's going to understand what I'm trying to say here unless I explain it to them face to face.
- But seriously, that comment on graduation night had my mum thinking for so long and even just then she was like to me, 'Tina, I still don't understand what it means'. Well mum, neither do I and I guarantee you that the ass of those mothers is definitely jealous of the shit that comes out from their mouth.
- I actually kinda already expected this to happen. Sorting out grad tables was hard because there was like a limit of 10 people I think and our group (including parents) had like 24ish people. The maximum per table was 12, so initially we split into two. Unfortunately, Cindy and I was put onto Octavia's table which had Michelle, Stella and Sarah. For most students it was +1 for parents, but Stella and Michelle had +2s which made the table not work out and someone had to leave. Octavia was saying how she would leave just to make space but the fucking thing is, Cindy and I don't even talk to god damn Sarah and Stella and they're on that table because of Michelle. Why would Cindy and I stay on a table with people we don't even associate with lol. But yeah, I think one of those people got pissy and told their rents (and probably along with other shit I've said in the past) which is what led to them saying “你被她卖了你也不知道”.
- Like guys give me a fucking break. It was either me and Cindy leave or Octavia and Michelle. Obviously they had to stay because Stella and Sarah are on that table because of them. So what's the fucking point of being angry with me? It's like asking Batman and Superman to stay on a table with the 7 dwarves. They don't fucking go together nor do they associate with each other at all.
- But seriously, back to my original point. Actually no. Typing words doesn't suffice what I'm trying to express/get across so I'm just going to end it here and find someone to talk to instead :(
- Not that there's anyone anyway since everyone's just studying hard